Her name is Lois
Fraley.
After keeping her identity secret for two
months, the corrections officer who was raped and held captive
during the state prison standoff near Buckeye went on national
television Tuesday and told the world who she
is.
Dressed in her officer's uniform, Fraley, 33,
looked healthy and sounded upbeat during the interview on
ABC's
Good Morning America.
In Phoenix, Sarah
Kennedy, executive director of the Arizona Sexual Assault
Network, watched the interview and noticed the most
"wonderful" thing: When Fraley spoke of the two sexual
assaults she endured on the first day of her captivity, "you
could really tell there was no shame."
"If you were
sexually assaulted, there is a stigma, and there is a lot of
blame and there are a lot of myths that people bring it on
themselves when they don't," Kennedy said. "It shouldn't be
shameful."
Those who work with sexual-assault victims
say Fraley's stepping forward could be a positive thing for
other women who have been raped. By speaking publicly without
shielding her name or her face, Fraley chipped away at the
stigma of sexual assault and perhaps took one giant step in
her healing process.
"It helps people
understand this is an extremely prevalent crime even though
people are reluctant to talk about it," Kennedy
said.
"We're very proud of her."
Fraley said she
was sexually assaulted by inmates Steven Coy and Ricky
Wassenaar on Jan. 18, when the pair took over the tower at the
Arizona State Prison Complex-Lewis. The ensuing 15-day
standoff was the longest in modern U.S. history.
The
officer said she lost 30 pounds during the standoff and
contemplated suicide. Until the moment she walked out of the
watchtower and was grabbed by officers, Fraley said she
thought she would die.
"I took my family for granted,
and I will never do that again," she said.
Corrections
Director Dora Schriro said Tuesday that Fraley's appearance
"shows she is progressing in her healing."
Fraley has
been medically cleared to return to work, and prison officials
are trying to determine an appropriate placement, Schriro
said.
"I am so ready," Fraley said Tuesday.
Dan
Levey, the governor's adviser for victims, said stepping
forward isn't for everyone, but he said he hoped Fraley's
appearance would at least spur other women to report rapes.
At the least, victims who tell their stories put a
human face on crimes that are too often not spoken
about.
"I think it is courageous," Levey said. "It lets
the public see the enormity of what she went
through."
In Arizona, a woman is raped every 5 hours,
31 minutes, according to the state Department of Public
Safety's "Crime in Arizona 2002 Report." Yet sexual assault
remains one of the most underreported crimes, and women rarely
speak about it publicly.
"Sometimes when victims go
forward, they feel empowered. The offender didn't get the best
of them," said Cindi Nannetti, who leads the Sex Crimes Bureau
at the Maricopa County Attorney's Office. "They can stand up
for themselves. They can take a bad situation and make
lemonade out of lemons."
Scott Berkowitz, president of
the Rape, Abuse and Incest National Network in Washington,
D.C., called Fraley's appearance "very beneficial" and said
his organization encourages women to report sexual assaults
and to speak openly about the attacks. The more that can be
done "to show that this is a crime like any other crime," the
easier it becomes to collectively do something about it, he
said.
"It normalizes it in a good way," Berkowitz said.
"It says, 'OK, I got through this and you can get through it.
. . . You're going to survive it.' "